True Sisterhood vs. False Sisterhood: Choosing Authenticity Over Gossi

The Shadow Side of Sisterhood: Why Gossip and Comparison Block Your Abundance

Can You Imagine?

Can you imagine spending your days creating fake accounts just to watch someone else’s life?

Can you imagine gossiping about someone you’ve never even met?

Can you imagine pouring all your energy into comparison instead of creation?

That must feel exhausting.

This is the shadow side of sisterhood~rooted in envy, gossip, and projection. But there’s another way: choosing authenticity, alignment, and true connection.

What True Sisterhood Looks Like

True sisterhood is sacred. It’s built on:

Authenticity - showing up as your real self, not a curated mask.
Celebration - cheering each other’s successes instead of competing.
Support - standing beside one another in both struggle and triumph.
Expansion - helping each other rise, not holding one another back.

When women honor these values, sisterhood becomes a powerful force for collective healing and abundance.

The Shadow Side: False Sisterhood

The “false sisterhood” shows up when gossip, comparison, and obsession replace authenticity. It often looks like:

Endless conversations about others instead of cultivating one’s own gifts.
Screenshotting posts or stalking social media accounts.
Spreading false stories for attention or validation.
Competing for scraps instead of creating overflow.

This energy is rooted in fear, scarcity, and unhealed wounds. It drains vitality and blocks true abundance.

Learn more about friendship, sisterhood, and letting go of toxic connections.

Building a Legacy Instead

While some waste energy in gossip, others choose creation.

By the age of 30, I had already:

Appeared on 50+ news stations
Worked with celebrity clients
Built lasting investments & overseas assets
Co-owned a farm with my sisters
Graced the covers of more than 50 magazines

These weren’t purchased for clout. They flowed into my life through alignment, dedication, and service.

And today, my inbox overflows with brand deals, my content goes viral organically, and my client base is so abundant that I often turn people away.

Instead of comparing myself to others, I invest my time in what truly nourishes me:

What I Choose to Focus On

Spending Time in Nature with My Animals

Nature grounds me, and my animals remind me of unconditional love. Together, they keep me connected to simplicity and presence.

Creating Beautiful Living Foods

Crafting vibrant, living foods isn’t just about nutrition~it’s about raising vibration and honoring the body as sacred.

Writing and Sharing Wisdom

Writing allows me to channel healing, truth, and inspiration for others. It’s one of the ways I continue to build legacy.

Working on My Health and Body

Wellness is a daily devotion. I invest in movement, healing therapies, and practices that keep me strong, youthful, and aligned.

Enjoying Time with Family and Friends

Legacy is about love. Time spent with family and true friends nourishes the soul far more than gossip ever could.

That’s the difference between building a legacy… and wasting energy in gossip.

The Sacred Power of True Sisterhood

I grew up in a house full of women.

All of us were beautiful in our own way. I was the youngest of three girls, and my mother was always surrounded by friends. Our home was constantly filled with laughter~the kind of joy that only women who love and celebrate each other can create.

There was no jealousy. No envy. Only encouragement and connection.

My mother worked in the beauty industry while moonlighting for attorneys for extra cash. Eventually she became best friends with a kind woman named Phyllis, who joined her in business at her boutique. This was another beautiful example of sisterhood for me.

My two grandmothers lived one street apart, even though my parents were divorced. They worked together so that when I visited one, they would share me between them. It was conscious sisterhood in the making right before my eyes.

That kind of collaboration taught me early what sisterhood was supposed to feel like.

The Contrast: When Sisterhood Turns Dark

Fast forward to adulthood, and I was forced to see the darker side.

I encountered a woman so consumed by jealousy that she reported my social media content repeatedly. This is a woman I have never even met and who I have nothing in common with.

When I finally called her out legally (with a cease and desist), she attempted to turn the tables, filing false allegations against me. I spent nearly $15,000 in legal fees just to defend myself against lies.

There have been multiple people stepping forward who don’t know me, claiming she has done the same to them. Since this woman dabbles in dark practices, I’ve also had to protect myself spiritually, which is why we’re redesigning my website, The Detox Intuitive (coming soon!).

This new website will teach people how to spiritually protect themselves~not in darkness, but in the light.

This was one of the hardest lessons of my life~realizing that not every woman is for you. Not every woman practices true sisterhood.

The Message: What Sisterhood Really Is

Here’s the truth I hold onto:

Sisterhood is not about gossip or competition.
Sisterhood is celebrating another woman’s beauty and success without feeling threatened.
Sisterhood is standing beside one another when the world tries to break us down.

What I grew up with—that house full of women laughing without envy—is still possible. I’ve lived it before, and I will keep choosing it today.

I want to challenge you to reach out to a woman in your life right now. Tell her you’re proud of her. Celebrate her wins. Be the kind of sister every woman deserves.

And if you’ve ever felt the sting of jealousy, betrayal, or false judgment from another woman, let my story remind you: there is still true sisterhood out there.

Seek it. Build it. Be it.

If you’re having trouble building sisterhood in your life, you could have karmic blocks. Book a reading here or check out my Karmic Clearing Program.